03/09/2026
Unpopular opinion: tight muscles don’t always need more pressure.
Sometimes, more pressure can actually be perceived by the nervous system as a threat particularly when the body is already highly guarded or sensitised.
Because what we experience as “tightness” isn’t always simply a short or tight muscle.
Sometimes it’s protective tension patterning the nervous system creating muscular holding because, for whatever reason, it currently feels necessary.
This is why deep relaxation can be such a powerful part of bodywork.
As arousal reduces and the brain moves towards the slower alpha activity associated with relaxed wakefulness, parasympathetic influence can increase. Breathing slows. Guarding can soften. Pain sensitivity can reduce. The nervous system has an opportunity to update its response.
And sometimes, tension begins to shift without us forcing it to.
The aim isn’t always to push harder until a muscle “releases”.
Sometimes it’s creating enough safety, time and space that the body decides it no longer needs to hold so tightly.
Less force. Less threat. More opportunity for change.