03/10/2025
We are our own worst critics
It’s so easy to focus on what we haven’t done yet
We notice every slip up, every day we “could have done better” and compare ourselves to others, especially on social media where progress looks instant and effortless
The truth is, your journey is completely unique
What works for one person might not work for you and small improvements can easily go unnoticed
That constant self-criticism can make progress feel invisible, even when it’s happening
That’s why reflection is so important
It’s about taking a pause, looking back and really seeing what you’ve achieved, not just focusing on what’s next
Reflection lets you notice your wins, big and small and gives perspective on what you can adapt moving forward
It’s not about never having setbacks, but about awareness and self-compassion
This is also why I have weekly check-ins with my clients
They aren’t just about accountability, they’re a chance to reflect on wins, normalise struggles and remind my clients that the ups and downs are completely normal
Take my client Joyce, for example
She sent me a photo after a work pasta-making event yesterday and honestly, I couldn’t wait to compare it with a before photo because I knew she would see how far she’s come!
She even messaged me back saying…
“Oh damn, now I see it too!! I am shocked (pleasantly, of course!)”
There’s a 10kg difference between these two photos!
This is exactly why reflection matters
Because when you’re in the middle of it all, you don’t always notice just how far you’ve come
And I couldn’t be prouder of Joyce for every bit of effort she’s put in
Reflection isn’t just something extra you do now and again, it’s one of the most important parts of making progress
If you’re ready to start noticing your wins, understanding your journey and getting support along the way, I’m here to help
Weekly check-ins can make a bigger difference than you’d expect and it’s exactly what helps my clients see just how far they’ve come!