30/03/2021
This is so true!
“Most people have never been involved in a physical confrontation with a trained martial artist. They have no idea how vulnerable they really are.
I've seen people get in arguments, get crazy with people and start fights. I’ll watch the fight take place, and it boggles my mind how this guy was so confident to get into a physical confrontation, but he's got no idea what to do!
I think there’s just so much ignorance and ego involved in the average person when it comes to physical confrontations. It would do a lot of people good just to realize how vulnerable they are.
What is a tap? A tap is a way where you can train safe, where you can say "you’ve got me." But what really is a tap? A tap means you're dead. Essentially you're playing a game called "I kill you with my body, or you kill me," or “We kill each other several times over the course of a 7-minute rolling session, and then we shake hands and say, thanks man for the great session.”
There's some people that have never faced this adversity, they’ve never faced physical adversity and they're terrified of it. They’ve never faced mental adversity and had some sort of easy, non-testing jobs, and that’s how they function in and out of every day.
When you're in that situation you're like a car that's never been pushed past 50. You wouldn't know how to drive it or know what's happening. It's just like how you wouldn't know what to do with your body when you get into a bad situation.
People who think you can't do it - if your body works, you can do it. You don't have to jump in with killers. Take the beginners classes, learn some techniques. It is actually fun! You know what, you just need to be able to tap out. When they get you, just tap! Figure out what you did wrong, and go back in there and learn.
It is a vehicle for developing your whole life."
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on various JRE Episodes