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Katieramsdencoaching Online Transformation Coach

09/09/2026

Fat loss slows down

and the first thought is usually,

“I need to drop my calories.”

It’s such a common reaction, and I completely get why.

You want to see progress again, so lowering food feels like the obvious answer.

But more often than not, calories aren’t actually the problem, adherence is.

It’s rarely anything major either.

It’s the little things that slowly creep in without you really noticing.

A few extra bites while cooking.

The odd snack that doesn’t get tracked.

Weekends become slightly more relaxed.

Steps dipping because life gets busy or the weather isn’t on your side.

None of these things seem like a big deal on their own

But over time, they add up.

This is where dropping calories misses the point.

Because if adherence is already slipping, lowering food doesn’t fix that.

You’ll still do the same things, just with less food to work with.

Which usually leads to more hunger, more frustration, and feeling like you’re trying even harder for less return.

Instead, it’s often about taking a step back and tightening things up again.

Then if progress still needs a nudge, creating a bigger deficit through activity is often the better place to go.

A few more steps each day or a bit more cardio.

Because as women, we already have to eat lower than we’d ideally like to lose fat.

So why rush to drop food even further when you could hold it where it is and move a little more instead?

It’s usually easier to stick to.

If you’re really struggling right now thinking you’re doing it all but not getting anywhere

DROP ME A MESSAGE 🫶🏻

A week where my papa bear bought me flowers and my gf baked me cookies! What more could I wish for 🤪Don’t worry… it was ...
08/09/2026

A week where my papa bear bought me flowers and my gf baked me cookies!

What more could I wish for 🤪

Don’t worry… it was backed up with a bit of an illness but we can’t have it all.

Felt a little like Billy from Hocus Pocus the last few days but finally feeling better and ready to tackle another week!

Another quiet one to be honest and I’m here for it!

Still not ready for Autumn but give me a few weeks and I’m jumping right in with both feet.

🧡🤎

POV: you stopped letting the scales run your life.I bet you woke up Monday feeling motivated.You’ve got your meals plann...
06/09/2026

POV: you stopped letting the scales run your life.

I bet you woke up Monday feeling motivated.

You’ve got your meals planned out, gym sessions booked in and you’re out at the crack of dawn for steps.

You’re doing everything you said you were going to do.

Then today, you stepped on the scales and boom, you’re up a lb.

Suddenly, the whole week feels pointless now.

You question the food.
You question the training.
You start thinking you need to do more.
Maybe eat less.
Maybe add more cardio.

By Friday, you’ve fallen off the plan because “what’s the point?”

Then Monday comes around again…

And you start over.

Not because you’re incapable of being consistent.

Because you’ve made the result the thing you’re measuring yourself against every single day.

This is something I drill into my clients:

Your job is not to control the outcome.
Your job is to control the actions.

You can’t force the scales to drop this week.

You can control whether you hit your protein.
Whether you train, get your steps in, eat like someone who actually wants the result.

And repeat every single day.

The result is the byproduct.

Sometimes you’re doing everything right and the scales won’t show you right away.

That doesn’t mean it’s not working.

It means you’ve got to stop asking “did it work this week?”

And start asking:

“Did I do what I needed to do this week?”

Because if you keep nailing the actions, eventually the result has no choice but to catch up.

But guess what happens if you keep doing what you are

The result never does

If you want someone to make it a million times easier

DM me and let’s chat about all things coaching with me 🤩

04/09/2026

You think you need balance from the very beginning.

But you don’t even know what true balance really is.

You’ve only ever been at both ends of the scale.

I know you’re it feels like you have to go ‘all in’ forever but you don’t

And waiting for yourself to be ready to do that means, you never will.

You need to break it down.

You might need a season where you say no more than you say yes.

A season where you don’t do everything you fancy doing.

A season where things feel unfair, uncomfortable and honestly a bit s**t.

Because you’re trying to change whilst still carrying all the habits that got you here.

It’s like clearing out your cupboards.

Before it looks organised, everything is everywhere.

It looks worse before it gets better.

And that’s what you don’t understand about finding a lifestyle you genuinely love.

Sometimes you have to live with less balance first, so you can actually discover what balance looks like for you.

You have to wade through the discomfort.

You have to experience what happens when you stop giving in every single time you fancy something.

You have to see the byproduct of discipline before you can enjoy the freedom that comes afterwards.

Because the goal isn’t to say no to things forever.

The goal is to build a body and a lifestyle you don’t constantly want to run away from.

To walk past a mirror and not immediately look away.

To eventually have balance because you’ve earned the ability to understand what actually works for you.

But you won’t get there by trying to have everything from day one.

Before it becomes balanced

You have to be willing to let it feel unbalanced 🤩

Summer didn’t make you gain weight.Doing the same things you’ve always done when your life got busier, did.Because when ...
02/09/2026

Summer didn’t make you gain weight.

Doing the same things you’ve always done when your life got busier, did.

Because when your calendar fills up, your routine changes.

More meals out.
More weekends away.
More social plans.
More holidays.
Less structure.
Less time to train.
Less control over what’s happening around you.

And instead of changing how you operate throughout that period.

You decide to throw in the towel all together.

Then September arrives and you’re stood in front of the mirror thinking:

“Right. I need to sort myself out.”

and the cycle begins again.

You don’t need to change the times you know you’ve got it handled

You need to learn how to adapt when you don’t

Because there is a massive difference between:

Losing weight and gaining weight.

That’s something my clients have learnt to do.

They haven’t spent their summer hiding from restaurants or saying no to every social occasion.

They’ve had busy calendars too.

They’ve just stopped expecting the same routine to work in every season of their life.

They’ve learnt how to make different choices when they have less time.

How to navigate social plans without thinking “f**k it”.

How to maintain their habits when their usual structure disappears.

How to have more flexibility without letting everything else disappear with it.

And most importantly, they haven’t had to figure it all out themselves.

They’ve had someone there saying:

“Right, this is what your week looks like. Here’s how we’re going to approach it.”

But, I don’t want you to look at your summer weight gain and think you need to become more disciplined.

I want you to ask yourself:

“Did I actually know how to adapt when my life changed?”

Because if the answer is no, you don’t need to beat yourself up.

You need to learn a different way of doing things.

One that still works when your diary is full.

Because your life isn’t going to get permanently quieter.

And if your results only survive when your calendar is empty.

You’re going to be starting over every post ....

Holiday, summer holidays, Easter and Christmas 🫢

Not much to show for the last couple of weeks since holiday But quiet means busy and I’m excited for what’s to come the ...
31/08/2026

Not much to show for the last couple of weeks since holiday

But quiet means busy and I’m excited for what’s to come the last quarter of the year!

Scrap BER months and insert DIY months!

Little deload from training too so back to full swing on Wednesday which I’m so ready for!

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