30/07/2026
You stand at the back of every photo now š
Nobody told you to. It just started happening.
Same as the rest of itā¦
š The t-shirt that stays on at the pool
š The shirt you pull away from your stomach when you sit down
š The āyou take one of just the kidsā when the camera comes out
š The black t-shirts. Always the black t-shirts
Little moves. Automatic now. You donāt even notice youāre doing them.
But hereās what I know after 12 years of coaching busy menā¦
Every one of those little moves is a man MANAGING a problem instead of fixing it.
And managing it is exhausting. Itās a second job you never applied for.
Hereās the other thing I know.
The men who do thisā¦most of them are the hardest working men in the room š
Theyāve just never had a plan that fits the job, the kids and the weekends⦠so every attempt has ended the same way, and hiding became easier than trying again.
One of my clients put the other side of it into one line on his check-inā¦
āActually feeling confident in t-shirts again.ā
AGAIN. Thatās the word that matters. It came back.
The photos, the pool, the t-shirts⦠that all comes back too.
Be honest with yourself. How many of those little moves are yours?
Drop a š if this caught you. Or if youāre ready to stop managing it⦠you know where I am