29/08/2026
It was my little biz birthday this week! 🎈🍰🎉
Four years altogether, three of which have been fully self-employed.
(Why did I put three candles in my cake on not four, who knows. But it’s too late for a re-do, as I’ve eaten the cake anyway.)
Although I love my job and I love being my own boss, my first reaction to realising it was my third year of being self-employed was HOW IS IT ONLY THREE YEARS?
It feels like it has been so much longer!
In both a good and a, gosh it’s really been a lot of work, kind of way.
In that last year of corporate work, I was slowly building my business. Sneaking out to teach whenever I could, focused on finding my confidence as a teacher.
I knew I wanted to go full-time with teaching as soon as I qualified, and I’m so glad I took the leap. Should I have tried to go part-time first and then all in? Maybe… But if I had my time again, I still would have made the same decision. It forced me to learn fast, try things before I felt ready, and really live and breathe my business. If I’d have known how hard it would be, I don’t know if I would have had the courage to try. Sometimes ignorance is bliss!
And it did make me laugh, when looking back through my old pics, I realised that in that first month of being self-employed I took three trips abroad - being in charge of my own annual leave has been both a blessing and a curse 🤭✈️
But here I am and I feel like I’ve learnt a few things on the way… so here are three thoughts from three (four) years 💜
God gave you a gut for a reason - listen to it.
There have been so many times when I’ve said yes to something when I know I should have said no. Known immediately upon arriving at a new studio that it’s not my vibe, or too far to drive, but not wanted to turn down the opportunity. Every decision I’ve made in my business has been a lesson - some took longer to learn than others, some cost me more money/sleep than others; my only ‘regrets’ have been the times when I have known, deep down, that I’m making the wrong choice but ignored my intuition. That in itself has been such a lesson.
There will always be people who know more, have done more, been in business longer, or have more follow