07/09/2026
Could the emotions we don’t allow ourselves to feel be influencing our pain?
This is something I explore with many of the people I work with — and the science around pain and emotion is fascinating.
Pain isn’t simply a message travelling from an injured body part to the brain. It is a complex experience shaped by sensory information AND by things such as attention, expectations, threat, stress and emotional state.
Research shows that emotions can modulate our experience of pain, and studies in chronic pain have found associations between difficulties with emotion regulation and greater pain.
And this is where neuroplasticity becomes really interesting.
When the brain repeatedly experiences something as threatening, it can become increasingly efficient at detecting and responding to that perceived threat. In persistent pain, changes in brain networks involved in sensory processing, attention, emotion and pain modulation have been observed.
But here’s the bit I think is really important:
This does NOT mean your pain is “all in your head”.
And it doesn’t mean that every person with chronic pain has “repressed emotions”.
Rather, it means that the brain and nervous system are constantly integrating information about what feels safe and what feels threatening — including emotional information.
Sometimes we become very good at pushing feelings down, staying busy, being strong, pleasing everyone else, or simply getting on with things.
So I might gently ask a client:
“What are you feeling — emotionally — underneath the physical sensations?”
Not because I believe they need to uncover some hidden trauma to recover.
But because understanding, allowing and regulating emotions can be one part of helping the nervous system become less threatened and less sensitised.
There is also encouraging evidence that interventions specifically targeting emotion regulation can reduce pain intensity, although the research is still developing and the quality of evidence varies.
This is part of how I work at Vibrant Coaching — combining pain neuroscience education, neuroplasticity, emotional awareness, nervous-system regulation and practical coaching to help people understand what their brain and body are doing rather than fear every sensation.
Because sometimes recovery isn’t about fighting your body.
It starts with getting curious about it.
so, have a reflect what emotions do you find hardest to acknowledge or express?