31/05/2020
///YOUR GOAL-SETTING IS SETTING YOU UP FOR FAILURE\\
//INSTEAD, GET HIGH EVERYDAY AND GUARANTEE SUCCESS\\
Setting yourself a goal like “I will lose 3kg in one month” or “in three months, I want to see a six-pack” is a sure-fire way to guarantee failure.
Yes, that’’s right. Your goal setting is killing your motivation, your confidence and momentum.
It is why 99% of people fail to achieve long term results.
You see, these goals are called “Outcome Goals” and they are the biggest killers to results.
It is like starting a 100m dash with weights on your ankles.
When you become too focused on the end result, you programme yourself into a negative mindset.
Here let me explain:
Let’s say your goal is to lose 3kgs in a week (which, by the way, is 100% doable and easy).
Subconsciously, you are telling yourself “I won’t be happy unless I lose 3kgs in a week”
Follow me so far?
You are focused on what you don’t have rather than what is under your control.
If you have an obsession to weigh yourself daily or every other day, you are too focused on the results.
And if the weight hasn’t budged for some reason, you end up being depressed and unhappy.
Sounding familiar?
Here is the solution:
Focus on what is under your control.
Let me explain.
Rather than setting RESULTS GOAL. Set yourself a PROCESS GOAL.
For example instead of “I am going to lose 3kg by the end of the week,” set a goal of “I will go to the gym 3 times a week.” Or “I will walk 10,000 steps on Monday, Wednesday and Friday.”
These are extremely measurable, doable and completely under YOUR control as to whether or not you did it.
By completing a task, your body releases DOPAMINE which triggers a ‘feel good’ sensation.
It is the same chemical that is released when you take drugs such as ni****ne, co***ne, alcohol etc.
It encourages us to act, and to do MORE!
This is the secret to staying motivated.
Setting yourself PROCESS GOALS is the best way to guarantee your success and motivation as you transform your physique
CONCLUSION:
Focusing on PROCESS GOALS over RESULTS GOALS reduces frustrations maintains an extremely high level of motivation.
If you manage to complete a task, the release of dopamine will empower you to continue and want to complete another.
If you have jumped from diet to diet, training programme to training programme, you have likely focused on the RESULTS and not the PROCESS.
Follow the PROCESS. The RESULTS will come 100% of the time.