15/06/2026
One of the most common things I hear from active women in their 40s and 50s is:
"I just assumed it was my age."
• The sore back.
• The stiff hips.
• The aching feet.
• The energy that doesn't seem to bounce back like it used to.
The thing is, sometimes age is part of the picture.
But often what surprises people is how much can still improve.
Not because they found the perfect exercise.
Not because they started training harder.
But because they stopped assuming the problem was inevitable.
I was talking to someone recently who had spent years accepting that certain aches and pains were simply part of getting older.
• She'd was stretching daily
• Doing Strength work.
• Having Massages
What changed wasn't finding another tool.
It was becoming curious again.
Instead of asking:
"How do I put up with this?"
She started asking:
"Is this actually normal?”
Those are very different questions.
I've seen people return to hiking holidays they thought were out of reach.
Get back to running after years of stop-start injuries.
Feel stronger and more confident on uneven ground.
Train consistently without feeling like they're constantly managing niggles.
Not because they've found a way to stop ageing.
Because they've stopped assuming every symptom is caused by it.
If you've ever caught yourself saying:
"It's probably just my age..."
it might be worth asking:
"How do I know?"
I've put together a free guide for active midlife women who are starting to wonder whether some of the things they've accepted might be more changeable than they realise.
Comment GUIDE below and I'll send it over.