16/08/2026
Courage isn’t the absence of fear.
Today, my daughter lost her first tooth. For the last few weeks, she’s known it was coming, and with that came all the questions.
Will it hurt?
Will it bleed?
What will it feel like?
What if I don’t like it?
To us, it’s just a wobbly tooth. To a six year old who has never experienced it before, it’s uncertainty. And uncertainty can be scary. Sound familiar?
Today, with me and Becca beside her, she finally pulled it out. We didn’t tell her not to be scared, we talked about being brave, being strong, and having courage, then she did it. Again sound familiar?
The smile and relief afterwards said everything, it struck me that we sometimes misunderstand courage.
Courage isn’t knowing something won’t hurt.
It isn’t being completely confident about what happens next, and it definitely isn’t the absence of fear.
Courage is feeling the fear, accepting the uncertainty, and taking the next step anyway.
Today it was a first tooth, as she grows up, the challenges will get bigger, and hopefully the lesson stays the same. How often will she, you, we, experience fear, and have to remember to be brave, strong, and courageous!
Proud Mom and dad moment. ❤️
And I suspect the Tooth Fairy is visiting tonight. 🧚🦷