12/06/2026
9 months in vs. 9 months out 🤰🏻
9 lessons I’ve learnt as a new mum 👶
1.The hardest lesson. Life may not turn out as you envisioned.
My mum passed away when my son was 6 months old. My oldest brother passed away 4 years ago. Both from cancer. They will be so missed from my son’s life.
2.It does get easier. The newborn trenches are SO rough. Especially when you don’t know what to expect as a first-time mum. But, slowly things start to get easier. There’s hope!
3.You will lose yourself, BUT you will rebuild yourself. Becoming a mum broke me in so many ways, but while hard, it wasn’t a bad thing. Some old patterns and beliefs needed to go, I’m talking to you, perfectionism! Now, I’m embracing the daily unknown.
4. You can find so much joy in the simple things. It’s a swing at the park. Playing on the floor. Seeing them crawl and stand for the first time. Seeing life through their new eyes is truly beautiful.
5.It takes a village, which is hard when you don’t have one. My mum’s not here anymore, and my in-laws live in England. We have a support network, but they have their own busy lives. We now have a great childminder, so I can work.
6. Sleep deprivation is SO hard. I live 2 very different lives depending on how much sleep I get. If you find yourself unmotivated, it’s most likely sleep deprivation and NOT your whole personality. When sleep is better, I do more. When sleep is worse, I simply survive.
7.My baby doesn’t need that much sleep. I couldn’t understand what I was doing wrong, because my baby wouldn’t go to sleep at 7 pm. 9-930pm is where we’re at. This makes for a MUCH better night’s sleep. We’ll get our evenings back one day lol
8.Overstimulation is such a thing. Silence is now my new best friend. I’m still trying to work out new ways to decompress when I don’t have much time on my own.
9.Exercise helps me SO much. When I feel physically strong, I feel mentally strong. BUT it is tricky to find the time. Whether it’s a postpartum class or YouTube workout. A little goes a long way.
What lessons would you add? Tell me in the comments below ❤️