27/02/2026
Yesterday I joined Bremar Wellbeing Health and Wellness to deliver a joint workshop with students in the Donegal area.
The focus of the session was both simple and complex: helping migrant young people settle into life in Ireland.
Imagine being 14 years old and navigating a new country, new culture, new language, new school system all while trying to make friends and understand how you feel about a life decision made by your parents.
Add to that the experience of not always feeling welcome, or in some cases hearing adults tell you to āgo back homeā or making racist remarks. Thatās a heavy emotional load for any young person.
The workshop was opened by Barney Herron, whose story had a profound impact on the students.
Barney is a former social senior social worker who was medically retired after suffering a severe stroke.
He was told he would never walk or speak again.
Today, Barney is not only walking, but speaking powerfully and clearly, delivering impactful talks to young people and Businesses across the country.
He also serves as a Child Welfare Officer within the Gaelic Athletic Association.
His message wasnāt about sympathy. It was about resilience. And you could feel the room shift as the students listened.
Real-life courage always lands differently.
My role then was to give the students practical tools.
We explored how to look beyond behaviour and begin to understand the origin of behaviour, why people say what they say, why fear often disguises itself as anger, and how ignorance is usually a reflection of limitation rather than truth.
When young people understand this, they reclaim power. They stop internalising someone elseās insecurity.
The second group I worked with were local Donegal students, young people adjusting to new classmates, new cultures, and changing communities.
Their questions and feelings mattered just as much. Change affects everyone.
Across both groups, we finished on the same foundation:
How to build resilience
How to create rapport with people who are different from you
How to develop emotional intelligence in moments of tension
This isnāt just a college issue. I see the same dynamics in organisations across Ireland and the UK, adults who never learned how to build rapport, manage emotion, or challenge their own assumptions.
The encouraging part? These skills can be taught.
Over the next few weeks, Iāll continue working with students from Jordan, Nigeria, Pakistan and Donegal alonside Bremar Wellbeing.
The learning is mutual. Iām gaining as much insight into their cultures and lived experiences as they are gaining tools from me.
Curiosity connects people.
Judgement divides them.
Every day really is a school day and the moment we think we know it all is the moment growth stops.
Letās keep the cup empty enough to learn.