28/01/2026
I’m 20months post baby #2, which was an awesome birth, and 5yrs post baby #1 which was awful, culminated in pelvic floor trauma and a good dose of mental trauma.
Recovering from birth is something to be respected, and if you let it, it’s the most immense learning curve about yourself.
I remember that failure of function after my first birth, and wondering how on earth I would run/smile/feel again. I remember finding a pelvic health physio (and a therapist) and doing the work religiously to get better. Luckily tenacious is my middle name and if this resonates with you, you can have my middle name too. If I’m honest, I never did get fully confident to run fast after birth #1 but I did want my pelvic floor and my body/mind to get to a certain place before I contemplated another birth, that became the functional green card.
20 months on from birth #2, with less time, a default parent life with a travelling husband, a wonderful client list and very little personal time (although tweaked mildly this year amen) here we are- looking straight in the eye of race pace run times and feeling more confident in this bod than I have in a while (certainly better than between births). All done with an active life, exercise snacks and zero training routine.
All this to say a few things to postnatal mums, your birth will have changed you, your story is important, and you might still be in the thick of processing it and working it all out. The most important thing to know is that whatever you want to do with your life from this moment forward-you can. Do not be limited by someone else’s limited knowledge.
Two things that I have found to be invaluable in achieving that - the right educating team around you and patience.
When i say I do Pilates so that I can do everything else-I still mean it!
It’s your body; believe, think big, go for it x