15/06/2026
Weekend MADE!
I reckon all good parents find themselves questioning if they are actually a good parent.
If what they are doing is enough, if they could be better.
I’ve had this conversation so many times with parents in my team, because it comes up all the time.
My answer is simple,
Often if you are asking the question, it means you are.
Those parents who are bad, unfit to be one, will never question themselves like that. It probably doesn’t even register on their radar.
The thing is, if you are a good parent. You’ve likely heard it before. Whether thats from your other half, friends, family. At some point someone has said or mentioned you are great.
We often just shake it off, as we expect nothing less of ourselves.
But we long to hear it from the source right?
Well I got my weekend, in fact year to date made!
Out working on the bike with H, he is cleaning away because,
“The bike has to be clean Dad, people will say WOW when they see it”
As I’m figuring out some wiring, he without even looking at me says out of nowhere,
“You’re a Great Dad”
That was it.
Had tears in my eyes. I’m telling this because I’m proud..
Because even when we are in seasons of our lives when we may feel like we are failing in areas, or not at our best.
It doesn’t mean you’re not doing your best for those who matter most.
We can get caught up in waves of life and expectations we set or feel have set for us, we can miss what truly counts.
So, just a reminder, to all those parents out there wondering if they are actually good parents.
Im hedging my bets you are! Keep being you! Keep showing up for them 🤜🤛