23/05/2026
Have you ever thought about why you’re afraid of being judged?
Or who you’re afraid of judging you?
And what those people are actually doing with their lives?
I used to be so scared what my friends would think, people from my hometown, my peers, sometimes even people I’d never met.
I could literally hear it ‘pfft, did you see her.. who’s she trying to be?’ and I’d freeze, mind would go blank and then I’d spiral and nothing would be enough
It literally stopped me being me, I’d write the longest to do lists out and rarely reached the ‘film content’ one.
I’d script what to say over and over, thinking what if it’s wrong? What if they think I don’t know what I’m doing or talk about. So I’d go away and learn more and research more.
When I did film content I’d sit there reading a script in a monotone voice, no facial expressions, no trust in myself and what I was saying.
So I had an NLP session with my coach, rewired a belief I’d taken on back in childhood & built such an insane level of self confidence that what someone will think of me isn’t even there.
Now I can just be me, show up as me and it literally attracts the clients I want to work with!
I bring out my silly side, I have fun, I say what I know because if I’m wrong what’s the worst that happens someone correct me? I learn either way. I don’t care who’s watching.
Ps. When someone judges you; it’s actually a projection of their own insecurities.. so nothing about you at all 😏
