06/06/2026
Some moments in life are truly once in a lifetime, and this month I experienced one of them.
I had the incredible honour of marrying my godson to the love of his life in beautiful Dorset. After months of writing, planning, researching and personalising every part of the ceremony, seeing it all come together was incredibly special. Every late night and every hour of preparation was worth it.
The setting couldn’t have been more perfect. Being back in Dorset brought back so many wonderful memories of family holidays and happy times spent there over the years. It has always held a special place in my heart, and now it holds another unforgettable memory.
Standing in front of family and friends to lead such an important moment was a huge responsibility. There were certainly times when I wondered how I would keep my emotions in check, but somehow I managed to put them to one side and focus on giving Olly and Lydia the ceremony they deserved.
Who knew that in my 50s I’d be officiating a wedding? I think a few people left wondering if I was about to announce a surprise career change! 😂 To be fair, even the minister texted afterwards to say it was “a privilege to be there” and that it was “so inspiring”. Perhaps I’ve found my backup plan after all!
Then again, maybe I simply learned from the best. Dad, perhaps some of your wisdom, warmth and storytelling rubbed off on me after all.
Then, after it was all over, I received a message that I will treasure forever:
“Thank you. It was the perfect wedding for us. I mean what I said in my speech. You’ve never made me feel like I should be anything but myself. Love you loads Godmum xx”
I don’t think I could ask for anything more, and I hope I can continue to live by my own advice!
To be entrusted with one of the most important days of someone’s life is a privilege beyond words. My heart is full, and I will carry this memory with me forever.
Congratulations, Mr & Mrs Jobling. Have the most wonderful life together ❤️
A weekend full of love, laughter, family memories and a reminder that sometimes the most unexpected experiences turn out to be the most rewarding!