12/11/2021
Today would have been my 3 year wedding anniversary. If you told me this time last year I would be writing this I definitely wouldn’t have believed you. Last December I left my Husband as I was suffering from mental/emotional abuse. It was one of the hardest things I have ever done.
At the time I didn’t think anything was wrong but the final straw for me was him screaming at me in the car & speeding. I was in tears but he didn’t think he was doing any wrong. That night I had enough, I packed all my things & left my flat I had shared with him. I asked him to get help however he refused. There was nothing else I could do to help him as he didn’t want to help himself.
Looking back on my relationship there are many happy memories that I share however overall I am really happy. I have amazing friends, family & colleagues who have all been so supportive & amazing this past year. After leaving him I have achieved so much just for me, I ran a Marathon which he said I’d never manage to do😂. I have so many plans for next year that again if i was still with him I would never achieve.
It’s different people telling you you are in an abusive relationship as you don’t see it untill you are out. If you think you are in an abusive/toxic relationship reach out to friends/ family! Trust me it’s much better to get out.