04/04/2020
Do you want to use your time at home to step up your online dating game? Today I'm giving you one of my tips on how to create a great online dating profile that will make you shine, attract the type of men you want and set you apart!
Tip: Share a story
People connect with and remember way better stories and emotions than facts. So instead of listing all the things you love doing, just pick 3 or 4 and share a story about one of them. For example if you love travelling, share the story of that time you got lost in New York and ended up discovering this incredible Italian restaurant that isn’t in any travel guide or of how your trip to Bali inspired you to live life differently,… If you love cooking, tell them about that unique dish you make and that all your friends are crazy about. Keep it short, it’s just to pique their interest and get them to feel like their life would perfectly fit with yours.
Same thing with your personality! For example, do you have a great sense of humor? Instead of saying that, write your profile in a way that will make them smile or laugh when they read it.
People won’t pay attention to the fact that you love to travel, that you have a great sense of humor, that you love to cook or that your friends are very important to you if you just write it (especially since most people write this in their profile). But if you tell them about that time you got lost in NYC and discovered that amazing restaurant, they’ll get the feeling that on top of travelling you have a positive outlook on life, that you enjoy adventures and that you know how to find something good in every situations. If you tell them about that unique dish you make and that your friends love so much, on top of the fact that you love to cook they’ll also get the feeling that you have a great social life and that you like sharing and making people happy. Of course a lot of this happens unconsciously but if you want a man that has a positive outlook on life, that is outgoing, has a great social life and is adventurous, this type of men will be able to (unconsciously) picture their life with yours when they read your profile and they will want to know more about you. And of course you can adapt this based on your life and the type of men you’re looking for.