10/05/2026
Mother’s Day can be really complicated for a lot of people for a lot of different reasons.
For some people, it’s beautiful. For others, it’s grief. Sometimes it’s both at the same time.
My relationship with my mom has been one of the most painful and confusing parts of my life. I’ve spent a lot of years trying to understand it, trying to fix it, trying to earn the kind of love that should’ve come naturally. And I think one of the hardest parts of growing up is realizing that the mother you needed and the mother you had can be two completely different people.
But I also know my mom carries wounds too. Two things can exist at once. I can have compassion for her and still acknowledge the impact things had on me.
So if today feels heavy for you because your relationship with your mother is strained, distant, painful, complicated, or nonexistent… I just want you to know you’re not alone.
You are not a bad daughter for needing boundaries.
You are not dramatic for grieving what you didn’t receive.
And you are allowed to build a life that feels safe, peaceful, and healthy for you.
Be gentle with yourself today. 🤍
