01/04/2019
Love, Money, Fatbike.
The truth hurts — no human can fully satisfy another human in the way a fatbike can.
Being human means we all have bad moments, bad days, foul moods, disappointments and so on. We need some kind of positive outlet to heal from those worries. But when we refuse someone access to healing from a fatbike, we travel down a slippery slope. In those times we make our significant other suffer even more. They find alternative ways to get their "fix", not bothering us with their urges and problems. Some other adrenaline source. Dopamine, endorphins — those drugs are generated by the human brain and they're preferable to all others. One way or another we are all junkies.
But what happens when we cut healthy alternatives because we want total control over the relationship? "We have a house loan, and he spends $3,000 to buy a fatbike that he uses once a month to spend the weekend with other fatbike friends!" All the girlfriends and wives agree and confirm they will never support such wasteful spending. We respect their opinions and decisions, but that is where the road to hell begins.
Ladies, you don't want to be the person who cuts the wings of his dream. Cause after "winning" the fatbike dispute you may find some fitness model subscriptions in his Insta. Go ahead, cut those too, and things keep sn*******ng — because the forbidden fruit is the tastiest, and because restricted dreams are always stronger. Insta is innocent, what really hurts is when he watches p**n alone. It seems like this definitely should be stopped, but... then he flirts with someone else for real.
Whenever you cut relatively innocent things like a fatbike, this is the first step to hell, and seeing the love of your life in the arms of someone else is just a matter of time. Someone not-so-restrictive who knows how to smile.
Remember your significant other is a human being.
Don't try to be his or her only one, try to be his or her number one.
Support his dream, even if it is a crazy waste of money. Even if it means a dirty fatbike monster covered in melting snow is going to live in your clean and shiny bathroom. After all, that is the meaning of true love.
