20/11/2025
I was born in Albania in 1980, in a time when the country stood completely isolated from the rest of the world. Under communism, life outside our borders was a mystery. Yet in that small, closed world, I remember feeling happy. Children often do—we accept life as it is. What I didn’t see were the silent battles my parents fought. They carried the weight of their limitations quietly, shielding me from worries I was far too young to face. Their strength lived in their silence.
Then came 1991. The regime collapsed, and suddenly the world rushed in—along with poverty, uncertainty, and a new, overwhelming freedom. I was old enough to understand that things were hard, old enough to see the worry in my parents’ eyes, even if they still tried to hide it. Reality had stepped close, and it no longer asked for permission.
And yet… even in those difficult years, I was never alone. I was surrounded by a whole village of adults—cousins, neighbors, friends’ parents—people who held one another up. Society was woven together tightly, and that web carried all of us. From them I learned a truth that has shaped my entire life: **when a community stands together, children are never left to face the world alone.**
Now, as a father of two sons, I hold that truth close. I want them to grow up wrapped in the same kind of support—an environment where many adults walk beside them, guide them, believe in them. Because raising children is never the work of one parent or one family. It is the work of all of us.
As someone who works with children and young people, this isn’t just a belief—it’s my everyday mission. Every child deserves to feel safe, seen, valued. Every child deserves adults who show up.
On this International Day of the Rights of the Child, my heart returns to a simple message I once read painted on a wall in a Finnish neighborhood:
**“We have a lot of kids, but none of them is extra.”**
There is no child we can afford to overlook. No life we can afford to treat as less important.
Every child counts. And every child deserves a world that proves it—every single day.