31/08/2026
Monday Field Notes Post
One interesting thing I've noticed this week has been happening in my own herd.
Parker is five now. He's Champ's son. The hierarchy between the boys has been very clear from the moment Parker was introduced.
Champ could move Charlie. Champ could move Parker. Charlie could move Parker, but not Champ. Parker couldn't move anyone.
Over the last few months that's been changing.
It's most obvious at feed time. Parker now walks over and moves Champ off his food. Champ doesn't argue. He immediately goes and moves Charlie, and Charlie just takes the spare place because, honestly, Charlie is more interested in food than conflict.
At first I would move them back, because I can move everyone!, putting everyone back where they "should" be. Then I stopped.
The more it went on, the more I noticed this wasn't just a youngster testing boundaries. Something was changing inside the herd, and I didn't think it was my job to keep putting the hierarchy back where it used to be.
Here's the part I find really interesting.
Parker can now move Champ.
But he still can't move Charlie.
Champ can still move Charlie.
It's such a strange little shift in the relationships between the three of them.
What I've also noticed is that Parker isn't as settled as he was before. He has gained status, but he hasn't gained calm.
He's more alert. More reactive. More switched on to everything happening around him. It's as though he's taken on a role he isn't completely comfortable carrying yet.
It's made me think about other horses I've known.
Years ago I coached a mare whose owner described her as incredibly confident. She'd go first, she'd tackle anything, she'd always be the brave one. But she wasn't confident at all.
She was deeply insecure, and taking charge was how she coped with that insecurity.
Since then I've wondered how often we get this wrong.
How many horses do we call confident when actually they're the ones who feel responsible for organising everything around them?
Maybe what looks like confidence is sometimes a horse saying, "If nobody else is going to do this, I will."
I'm still sitting with that thought.
What do you think?