16/01/2021
You felt high like on drugs, smile was not disappearing from your face and all around been brighter and more colorful even on the rainiest day.
You felt invincible and ready to take on the world… you been in love and you felt loved.
All of a sudden it all stopped, disappeared and you found yourself sitting there alone, no more magic around, music in your ears, and those happy dreams turned into a long-gone mirage…
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The fact is that it all can end in a space of minutes and there is no way back. So what are some things we can do to get back on track and cope with the loss of someone who mattered?
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The most effective is to fall right back in love - with yourself! Understand that YOU are the one and only person who will be there for you for the rest of your life.
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Begin with little steps of rebuilding yourself like:
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💫 Wake up with your favorite music
💫 Do a workout
💫 Change from your sweat pants or pajamas- I know it’s difficult sometimes 😉
💫 Take a long bath or a shower, using peelings and body creams
💫 Pumper yourself with a great delicious meal- yes, I do encourage you to ditch that ice cream for a bowl of fruits
💫 Talk it over with friends- do not suppress your feelings, nor stay alone with them
💫 Cry- A lot! Tears are having a wonderful healing effect on our body, they help to relieve emotional pain
💫 Concentrate on all positive you have in life (job, friends, family, pets…)
💫 Set new goals on how to become a better version of yourself
💫 Go look in the mirror and tell something nice to yourself- you are loved and unique
💫 Look for proofs in your life from times when you got over your ex-partner and felt stronger and prouder of yourself like never before.
💫 Set a time limit till when you will grief - be strict in keeping it- because Your happiness depends only on YOU and YOUR MIND
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Trust me it works!
And remember, it all will pass just to give way to something (someone) better, someone who truly deserves you and will love you the way you are.
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