02/06/2025
Here's an excerpt from my 3rd book, "Daily Reflections for Modern Twelve Step Recovery," released January 1, 2025 on Amazon. We're continuing the discounted price for another month.
February 6 My story is a freedom song of struggle. It is about finding one’s purpose, how to overcome fear and stand up for causes bigger than oneself. – Coretta Scott King 1927-2006
The widow of the late Rev. Martin Luther King offers words that touch on themes addressed elsewhere in this volume. Everyone struggles. Some endure that with great dignity and move forward to notable achievement. Others go to great lengths to avoid tackling difficult projects where some degree of struggling will be inevitable. Mrs. King did not hide from struggle and her efforts were largely on behalf of others.
People on a mission to be of service to their fellows live lives of purpose. There are gems in the recovery community who assist large numbers of people. Ronald Reagan said that “we can’t help everyone but we can all help someone.” Abraham Lincoln uttered the words: “When I do good, I feel good.” Helping other people feels good.
Anyone participating in mutual aid groups finds that he or she is engaged in activities that bring purpose.
Fear is the enemy of all who would like to live rich lives.
Alcoholics and drug addicts seem to have higher anxiety levels than what is seen in the general population. Much found in the 12-steps centers on reducing fear and resentment. People wallowing in those two states lead lives of quiet desperation. It’s difficult to stay sober if resentment and fear are not reduced. Recovery doesn’t necessarily lead to greatness, but the desire to help others is a cause bigger than oneself.
Would I benefit from having less fear? In recovery, have I found more purpose? Do I persist or give up easily on projects?
Great gift for a friend in any 12-Step group.
