08/09/2025
Do you know when to show up, and when your body is asking you to rest?
It's something I'm often asked by people, as someone who has burned out three times before, and at the same time, I've held myself back out of fear of it happening again (IYKYK).
The part of me who wants to show up is the part of me who knows what's possible, but at the same time thinks, “If you don't show up, you'll fail.”
Can you relate?
That little voice inside your mind that tells you that if you rest, you'll never succeed, or, on the flip side, if you show up and push yourself a little bit harder, you'll end up sick again.
Our brain is wired to keep us safe. That's its only job, and so learning to determine the difference between what is a very real threat to our safety, and what is a learned response requires us to develop our self-awareness and pay attention to the outcomes and results that disprove what our mind is telling us.
This is why, when my clients work with me, I challenge them.
I ask them if their experience is true and grounded in reality, or if it's a perspective designed to keep them safe.
Now there's nothing wrong with choosing what's safe, but if you have big dreams, it requires us to take risks, be bold, and show up consistently for the promise God has placed on our heart (and yes, sometimes that includes rest).
If you're letting your fear get in the way of taking bold action, consider the following questions:
1. What evidence supports this thought? What evidence might not support it?
2. Is this thought a fact, or is it an interpretation?
3. What's another way of looking at this situation?
4. If you zoomed out and looked at this from a year in the future, how might you see it differently?
5. If you acted as if the opposite of this thought were true, what would you do differently?
6. How can you move in the direction of your values, regardless of whether this thought is here?
Did you know that you can choose your behaviours regardless of what you're thinking, especially when you have a deeper reason why?
And that’s exactly what I help my clients do: release fear, build unshakable trust in who you are, and take bold, aligned action in the direction of your dreams.
Together, we'll:
> Clear the noise → Identify the fear voice + rewire your inner dialogue.
> Build grounded confidence → Anchor in self-trust and courageous action.
> Take bold, aligned action → Create momentum toward your goals (career, business, relationships).
> Sustain it → Learn how to stop sabotage and keep showing up, even when fear returns.
By the end of our time together, you’ll:
> Feel confident in who you are (no more hiding).
> Trust yourself to make decisions (and stop overthinking).
> Take action without fear, running the show.
> Finally feel “enough” — as a woman, leader, mum, coach, or business owner.
I only take on five private clients at a time, and once these spaces are full, I won't be enrolling to work with me again until February next year.