08/07/2025
Posted • If you’ve ever felt frustrated by how misunderstood your grief is, we hope this helps. While you'll never be misunderstood here, or have to justify and explain yourself, we understand that society isn't as understanding.
Sadly, most people don’t get it and we don't always have to have experienced something to get it. Acceptance and curiosity goes a long way in the absence of lived experience.
Society expects a timeline and for us 'move on' and to be a version of ourselves that simply doesn't exist anymore.
It's not that we're grieving wrong, or doing grief incorrectly. We're just grievers, grieving in a world that sadly doesn't know how to hold space for it.
If any of this feels familiar, we hope you feel seen and heard ❤️
And also, if you're here as a supporter and not a griever, maybe this will help you to better support someone grieving.
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