01/02/2026
Confidence vs Clarity!
Confidence is widely known today to be something someone should have, but in actuality Confidence is a false sense of knowing… It's You thinking You know but in reality You do not know but have convinced Yourself that You do know.. In many ways this is a dangerous way to live, and it also boosts Your Ego which is not so good either..
Clarity on the other hand is something everyone should have, if You can see clearly what is the Reality of Life, what is the situation at hand, what are my capabilities to deal with situations, then You have a clearer path to what it is You want to Achieve and Experience in Your Life..
Lets use an example of the difference between Confidence and Clarity… Lets use Your home or living room as a way to explain this, if you've lived in Your living room for a long time, you know where everything is, where the sofa and chair and tables are, your entertainment center and if there are any stairs leading to other rooms.. What would happen if You were sitting on your sofa, and the room became completely dark, no light at all was present, what would You do, would you run to the next room to get a flashlight or candle, or would You walk slowly, feeling your way to the next room? I would feel my way and walk slowly so I don’t bump into anything and/or hurt myself right? Now if you have a flashlight right there you would turn it on and then See the room and where to go? This is an example of Clarity, the flashlight is giving you Clarity, even though You know the room's layout (confidence), when it is completely dark You move slowly and carefully until there is Clarity via light once again..
So Clarity is a very important capability to work on in the New Year of 2026, You only gain Clarity when Your Awareness is very intense.. Awareness is not mental focus, it is an overall Experience of Knowing what Life Is and what it means to be Human.. All of Us can live at a high Level of Awareness, it's just mostly our mental patterns of living in the past/future or too much thinking/thought loops prevent Us from tapping into this field of Awareness we all have access to, it's a skill that can be developed and when it is then Life Transforms!!
James Roller