07/13/2026
Water Anxiety
The first thing I say to people who are nervous about the water is that it's a sign of intelligence. You recognize that there is a risk and respond to that risk. Skill replaces fear. As you practice in the environment you are nervous about, learn how to swim, how to hold your breath, how to access the pool, where to go and how to be safe, the fear will slowly go away. Even just knowing the basics, how to fall down and stand up in shallow water, where the shallow water is and where the deep water is doesn't take long to teach and can dramatically change how someone feels about the pool because they know where they are safe. With many adults I start with learing balance, kneeling-standing, going underwater and standing and siting or even lying down underwater and then standing up combined with blowing bubbles out the nose. Often I use ladders or rails to help getting both down and up. These basics create a zone of safety that the students can practice in; the shallow end.
Once a student can swim a bit, once they learn basic sculling techniques with the arms, it is time to experience the deep end. Start them near the wall and stay near them with a reaching aid, just in case. They can try treading water where the water is up to their neck and then if they can do that, you can take them a little deeper, where it is over their head, but again stay near the wall. I usually cling to the wall with one hand and have the other hand ready to scoop them back to the wall if there is any problems or when they get tired if they don't get back themselves. When the student gets tired, it's time to stop, to lower the stress level and return to the shallow end. I like to do 2 minutes of treading but always invite the student to stop when tired and then re-start when ready.
Even when a student starts managing in the deep water, the habbit that is being nervous of water can take a while to overcome. Certain habbits will stay with the student as they become stronger and stronger until they eventually fade. I've seen students who have been really solid at treading still fighting panic attacks in deep water. Just remind them that the body is a tool designed for survival and it doesn't like to give up habbits it has learned to protect itself.
Most people who are really afraid, curl into a tight ball. It's a defensive position. In the water, this is the wrong thing to do. You want to relax and not tense up your muscles. Tensing muscles makes them denser and makes you smaller and sink better. It also makes it hard to breath, so you stop. This puts you on a short clock because you aren't getting air. If you don't know how to do anything else, just relaxing will increase your chance of survival, but it's really hard to do.
If you are relaxed and focused, in deep water you can sink down to the bottom and them jump, 'bounce', back up to the top and get a breath and move towards the shallow end. I had a friend who, as a child, used this technique to survive being in the deep end when he couldn't swim. This can get you back to the wall, or floatation device you've lost or the shallow end. But you have to stay calm. It's really important that you sink all the way so you can push off the floor. So this skill is hard to learn. It is mostly used by people who tend to sink already and picked up by almost every swimmer as they learn to navigate the deep end.
One thing I teach people that helps with nervousness is how long they can hold their breath. First I get them to see how long they can normally hold their breath. Then, I give them a break, and get them to time themselves again, but this time after they breath out. I have asthma. I can hold my breath 35 seconds and after breathing out, I can hold my breath for about 10-15 seconds. So I remind people that if everything goes wrong and they breath out and then go underwater, they've still got around 10 to 15 seconds if they stay calm. That's a lot of time to figure out how to get their next breath. Knowledge can replace fear.
Familiarity can replace fear. I often take students to see the deep end. This might be in a lifejacket, or with some other kind of floatation device or even just gutter grabbing down the wall. I want them to see it. It shouldn't be this strange place they've never been. I'm careful as I can be when I do this because it's a great opportunity to make them even more scared if something goes wrong so you want to do everything possible to make sure that doesn't happen. When students are ready I'll load up my mat with all kinds of floating things and we'll stay in the deep in for a while, switching from one floating thing to another. And sometimes I'll get them to swith widths of the deep end, from the wall to the mat and then to the other wall. The mat can make the deep end smaller and more accessable.
Getting people down to the bottom of the deep end is a huge fear reducer. Now they can access anywhere in the pool. Dropping things isn't a problem anymore. One trick to help people get to the bottom is to get them to climb down any ladders in the deep end. This gives them something to hang onto and pull themselves both down and then up again. For me at least, being able to touch the floor really removes most of the fear I have for that water.
Duration is important. You want to watch your students for signs of fear and if they are getting too stressed, take them back to the shallow end. Give them a break. Then if there is more to do in the deep end you might ask if they are ready to return. Things to watch for are choking, fast panicked movements, clutching at the wall, panting because they aren't breathing right, wide eyes, crying and tears, suddenly asking to go to the bathroom or simply asking to go back to the shallow end, or when the class ends. That last one is pretty much the biggest warning sign that I've pushed my student possibly too far, and it's time to return to a safe area and just play a game and let them have some fun in the water.