Hot Mess to Awesomeness with Dionne Thomson

10/23/2025

Babe, we know that you are always with us … hard to believe it’s been a year ❤️‍🩹

** Although this is a photo I edited and added him to from when the girls and I visited Dave’s favourite golf course and our family and friends in Kananaskis this summer, I know he is watching over us and when I see this picture my heart heals just a bit more ❤️

He will forever get to enjoy the view.

(Thank you Ryan, Heather, Griff & Steve ❤️)

07/23/2025

To Dionne Love Dave July 23rd 2015

“You make me want to be a better man.

I promised to love you and make you feel loved
How our lives have changes since 8 years have gone by. From our first apartment where we said our vows, to the home where both our kids will grow. I hope that you know everyday I think about how you are, and I hope you know how much I love you.

I promised to listen with all my heart.
I hear you. I know how you feel and I will try forever to answer your needs, and to be your friend when you’re in need.

I promised to talk, and let you know how I feel.
Thank you for growing with me, and being a stronger friend to me day by day. I would be a shadow in the dark without your patience, caring and undoubted support.

I promised to always keep you in mind.
You’re all I care about. You and our girls are the fuel for my life’s fire.

I promised to be honourable and think things through with you.
You know all there is to know about me, and that brings me comfort in dark moments, and gives me strength.

I promised to smile and kiss you before you start your day.
I’m sorry if you’ve gone without a smile, but I can’t recall not smooching you for any reason. I’m sorry proud of how no matter what things are going on within our lives, I still need to smooch you before one of us leaves.

I promised to tell you I love you.
And even though I’m sure I’ve said it to you at some point today…I love you Dionne. Know that you’re the love of my life, and I look forward to loving you more every day. Because I love you more today than yesterday, and the day before that. You’re amazing.

I promised to play and sing for you.
You’re the reason I play and there’s always a song that makes me think of you.

I hope you feel loved. I hope that the life we’ve built gives you happiness every day. I hope you know that you are my role model, and I look to your guidance on so many levels. I hope you know how beautiful you are, and that I find you all kinds of sexy. I hope you know what a great mother and teacher you are to our amazing girls. They are a product of your awesomeness. I hope you know what an amazing partner you are…(continued in comments)❤️

06/17/2025

Attention all Golfers, Wannabes and those of us who “only go for the shenanigans” JOIN US on July 12th for the 1st Annual Dave Thomson Memorial Golf Tournament!

A day Dave would’ve been all over: friendly competition, questionable swings, BBQ, beers, and plenty of laughs. Whether you’re signing up a full golf team of four or flying solo, we’ll do our best to slot you in with a great group.

Date: Saturday, July 12, 2025
Location: Settlers’ Ghost Golf Club
Tee-off: Tentative 1 PM shotgun start (Scramble Format)– come early to check in and grab lunch.

SPOTS ARE LIMITED
$150 per golfer Includes a BBQ lunch before tee-off, 18 holes of golf, cart and dinner afterward to keep the day going.

TO SECURE YOUR SPOT Please register using the link in my bio or simply send your etransfer to [email protected] and put your name in the notes section (autodeposit activated - no password required) and I’ll add you to the list! https://forms.gle/66wPEXLfMoAR8SZD6

SPONSORSHIP/PRIZE DONATIONS Please let us know if you’d like to sponsor a hole &/or donate a prize and I’ll get back to you soon with more details. I’d love to have all the sponsor information confirmed by June 24th.

Any questions, please contact me directly or email us [email protected]

PLEASE LET YOUR FRIENDS KNOW!
Thank you!

10/26/2024

Please join us for Dave’s Celebration of Life on Sat Nov 23rd at the North Simcoe Recreation Centre in Midland, drop in between 4-10pm for an evening of love, laughter & music. ❤️💔❤️

10/24/2024

My heart is shattered 💔 The most amazing human I have ever known, Dave my husband, my home, my safe place, my person the man whom I love, trust, appreciate and value… my everything … suffered a massive heart attack and passed away on Tuesday morning.

I can’t seem to find the right words to describe how amazing he was…every word that resonates with love comes to mind and yet still isn’t enough. He was my best friend and I am lost. Our girls…💔 Dave lived for Addie and Lucy…every breath every thought was for them. He loved us so deeply, and with a huge open heart shared the words “I love you” with each of us absolutely every single day. I feel honoured and blessed to have shared 20 years of my life with him. The brilliant life we created, the love and laughter we’ve shared, the amazing humans we loved together is more than I could ask for…and not nearly enough. I will cherish every memory.

And he was so loved by so many…the outpouring of love that our family has been receiving, the stories and the kind words have been a welcomed distraction. And just knowing that the legacy he is leaving behind is one of endless love, kindness, thoughtfulness, deep friendship, love of music and of course humour is what is carrying me through right now.

Please continue to share your love for Dave with us…together we will keep him alive and our girls will have not only their beautiful memories of their dad but they will also have yours to remind them of the truly amazing human he was.

There will be Celebration of Life for Dave in the coming weeks, where there will be a space for everyone to share their stories, love and kind words. I will share all the details once we firm them up.

Thank you to everyone who has reached out and expressed their love and concern. I know that no one knows what to say or do…and please know that every message is holding my broken heart together 💔❤️💔

02/23/2024

Save your seat for the next Hot Mess to Awesomeness Society Wed Feb 28th!

At our last meeting we took the first steps to re-writing your story and the importance of being your own hero! We had fun with my rendition of The Pixar Story Activity and everyone walked away with the makings of a great new chapter!

Now, I think we all know, that in every story there are supporting characters, those that lift you up & those that challenge you, some who share their wisdom and others who share their pain. And regardless of the ups and downs, it is through our relationships that we explore and learn how to live our lives.

What is the most important relationship in your life?
Our guest story teller this month, Jessica Greenwell, will be sharing how through her relationships with people and animals a fire was lit in her soul, sparking a shift that would forever change her story and her outlook on life!

Together we'll be exploring how to spark a little fire into the most important relationship in your life using a little activity I call 'Letter To a Friend'.

Join us on Wed Feb 28th for the chance to look at your story, your life, in a brand new way and walk away with the spark to Ignite Your Awesomeness!

Empowering community for women eager to prioritize their happiness. Join us in-person OR online for a unique and awesome experience.

01/30/2024

The BEST way to spend a chilly Wednesday night!
The Choir Revolution doesn’t take itself too seriously, we’re just a bunch of folks singing a few songs and having a ton of FUN!

Joined by Midland’s very own Dave Thomson, Brett Caswell will be leading us through some fan favourites including the always warm and sunny ‘Walking On Sunshine’ by Katrina & The Waves!

Grab your ticket now (link in bio) or message me to save your seat and pay at the door.
**All abilities welcome**

https://www.dionnethomson.com/choir-revolution

01/22/2024

Midland's 1st Choir Revolution is only 10 days away!
Not a singer, THAT'S OK! All abilities welcome!

Our guest, Brett Caswell, a brilliant musician and founder of Choir Revolution, will be sharing his story and leading us through some amazing songs! Brett will be joined by Midland's very own Dave Thomson!

Choir Revolution is a singing event that doesn’t take itself too seriously. Through the power of music it provides a zero-judgement space for folks to share the joys of group singing while fostering a sense of community, love and even mental health benefits.

Light refreshments provided.
Grab your ticket today! (link in the comments)

01/19/2024

MIDLAND’S 1ST CHOIR REVOLUTION - Jan 31st!

This high-vibe, fun-filled night is for everyone!
Not a singer, THAT’S OK! All abilities welcome!

Our guest, Brett Caswell, a brilliant musician and founder of Choir Revolution , will be sharing his story and leading us through some amazing songs! Brett will be joined by Midland’s very own Dave Thomson!

Choir Revolution is a drop-in singing event that doesn’t take itself too seriously. Through the power of music it provides a zero-judgement space for folks to share the joys of group singing while fostering a sense of community, love and even mental health benefits.

Light refreshments provided.

Registration Link https://www.dionnethomson.com/choir-revolution Want to pay by etransfer or looking to register multiple people under one email address? Contact Dionne at [email protected].

12/04/2023

I believe it has little to do with changing who you are and ultimately everything to do with changing your perspective … so that you can BE who you truly are!

All too often and for far too long we’ve been cajoled into believing, thinking and feeling like we need to prove ourselves worthy of joy and love. And that perspective has held us back from opportunities to thrive. Fear of being wrong & not enough, fear of being cast out and worse…’being alone in a crowded room’ has actually isolated us from what we truly need to flourish…authentic connection, fierce compassion, child-like curiosity and wild creativity.

I invite you to tap into your innate intelligence, pause, reflect and see if you can shift your perspective…you just might find something truly special waiting for you ❤️ Spoiler…it’s YOU!

11/27/2023

Sobriety for me is so much more then not drinking, it has become the most important tool in my ‘self-love’ toolbox.

I’m amazed how over the past 700 days I have learned about, finally accepted and come to lovingly appreciate how my brain works…And I’m continuously amazed at the impact the decision to put ME 1st has had on EVERY relationship in my life…most importantly the one with myself!

And because there is no way to tease out whether my brain chemistry is due to inborn neurospicy-ness, acquired and generational trauma or the overwhelming patriarchal conditioning I’ve been the recipient of…I approach my nervous system and it’s habit of dysregulation with compassion and curiosity.

And for almost 2 years, my choice to limit numbing and escapism has made it possible for me to learn about and create new and powerful ways to regulate my nervous system. I now feel like I’m choosing to process feelings, thoughts, chaos and my unique experience with chemicals like dopamine, with more ease.

The most significant impact has been in my ability to down-regulate my fight/flight/fawn/freeze state for and with my girls…for the first 5+ years of their lives I struggled with feeling triggered by their pain, discomfort and tears. And now, although I still lose my s**t when situations run hot, I am able to step outside of my old patterns, be more present and focus on amplifying attachment and authenticity (for all of us ❤️).

Sobriety is different then “I don’t drink” what it means to me is that I say NO to drinking alcohol so that I can say YES to myself ❤️

11/21/2023

Last month we took the first steps to re-writing your story and the importance of being your own hero! We had fun with my rendition of The Pixar Story Activity and everyone walked away with the makings of a great new chapter!

Now, I think we all know, that in every story there are supporting characters, those that lift you up & those that challenge you, some who share their wisdom and others who share their pain. And regardless of the ups and downs, it is through our relationships that we explore and learn how to live our lives.

What is the most important relationship in your life?
Our guest story teller this month, Jessica Greenwell, will be sharing how through her relationships with people and animals a fire was lit in her soul, sparking a shift that would forever change her story and her outlook on life!

Together we'll be exploring how to spark a little fire into the most important relationship in your life using a little activity I call 'Letter To a Friend'.

Join us on Wed Nov 29th for ‘The Best Friend Experience’ and the chance to look at your story, your life, in a brand new way! Link to The Society in my bio 🤩