Life By Design

Life By Design LIFE BY DESIGN,
Dream it
Design it
Do it Hello Single women of faith, My Name is BrendaLee Abram Nakamura and I lived Single to Married - God's Way!

My entire adult life I spent centering it around men... all the wrong men I may add. In fact I looked for love in all the wrong places. Toxic relationship after toxic relationship. It wasn't till I laid down the whole man hunt for a time out, for the purpose of BECOMING THE RIGHT WOMAN, BEFORE GOD GAVE ME THE RIGHT MAN. God put me through a process, that I call the No More GAGA process, Then and

only then was I able to make the changes needed to have a healthy relationship in a marriage. This program is LIFE CHANGING! A real eye opener starting from the inside out. This program takes you to places you may have never considered before. It will have you look at life in a whole new way. It will magnify and examine your relationship with God & Self before you find the Spouse. So if you want a successful relationship/marriage than this program is for YOU. GAGA means CRAZY! You don't have to be GAGA or CRAZY to take this program, perhaps you just are a who wants more wisdom. Start with the 40-Day devotional book, and the Self Paced Program is COMING SOON. I look forward to your success as you embark on the most important journey ever! Brenda Abram Nakamura
Single to Married - God's Way
Founder of No More GAGA

🪴🪴🪴🪴🪴My 90-day goal for the first quarter of this year is HOME ORGANIZATION.First, I tackled my dreaded office… and tran...
02/24/2026

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My 90-day goal for the first quarter of this year is HOME ORGANIZATION.

First, I tackled my dreaded office… and transformed it into a place of clarity where I can actually find the papers that once lived in piles.

Since then, I’ve been doing daily spot checks — decluttering a drawer here, a closet there. I’ve also been doing one small thing toward my taxes each day.

And the peace… wow.
What I expected to feel like resistance has become a beautiful surprise.

Today I refreshed my garden room — removing heavy furniture and bringing in light, beautiful garden pieces. It feels like the outdoors have come inside… such a refreshing touch in the middle of winter.

This 90-day focus really works.

I’m slowing down the pace… and somehow getting more done.

If you haven’t tried setting a 90-day goal and faithfully doing one small step each day, I encourage you to try. It transforms your space, lifts your spirit, and brings a beautiful lightness to your life.

After all God is a God of order and peace , not chaos

Enjoy!

🌸☀️🌸☀️🌸☀️🌸Fun with my BestieYes… we may look a little over the top.But trust me — it’s completely on purpose.We LOVE to ...
02/13/2026

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Fun with my Bestie

Yes… we may look a little over the top.
But trust me — it’s completely on purpose.

We LOVE to have fun, and we LOVE to dress the part.
For us, dressing up isn’t about attention… it’s about expression. It’s our love language.

Because honestly — what are we waiting for?
Every single day is worth celebrating.

So we choose color.
We choose sparkle.
We choose outfits that reflect our hearts and our personalities.

If it brings a little extra joy into our world —
and maybe into yours too —
then it’s always worth it. 💛✨

☀️ 💛☀️💛☀️💛☀️✨ “She lives by design — loving boldly, creating freely, and walking faithfully toward the life she was call...
02/12/2026

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✨ “She lives by design — loving boldly, creating freely, and walking faithfully toward the life she was called to build.”

You are called to be YOU
(Everyone else is taken)
Don’t sleep walk through life,
Don’t rush through life,
Stop,Look, Listen, then Do

You are building a Legacy 🌸☀️

🌸❤️🌸❤️🌸❤️🌸Everyone needs a coach — yes, even coaches do. We all need someone who helps us stay accountable, grounded, an...
02/11/2026

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Everyone needs a coach — yes, even coaches do. We all need someone who helps us stay accountable, grounded, and aligned with what matters most.

In a world full of noise and endless distractions, we must be careful about what we give our attention to. Time is a gift, and our days are not unlimited. Without purposeful choices, it’s easy to drift away from the life we were designed to live.

Stop chasing every shiny distraction.

Instead — decide.

Decide what you truly want.
Decide what stays.
Decide what must go.
Decide how your time will be invested.
Decide to bring order to your days.

Clarity changes everything.
Specificity creates momentum.

Get clear.
Get focused.
Get a coach.

🩷💛⭐️🩷🌟🩷🌻🌼🩷My 90-Day goal is Home Organization ✨I started with my office / studio / dream den / creativity corner — whate...
01/29/2026

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My 90-Day goal is Home Organization ✨
I started with my office / studio / dream den / creativity corner — whatever you want to call it.

Every woman needs a space to dream, think, ponder, pray, and plan.

This room was once crowded with leftover Christmas chaos, half-finished craft projects, scattered papers… and the looming dread of tax season 😅
Now? I can finally breathe here.

You can’t dream—or even think clearly—in a space that doesn’t refresh your soul.
Your space should call your name and invite you in each morning.

Do you have a magical morning spot yet?
If yes, send me a pic — I’d love to see it 💛
If not… what are you waiting for?

🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼Better late than never … celebrating my new word today!Word of the day, AgencyTo get agency” means to gain, re-esta...
01/26/2026

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Better late than never … celebrating my new word today!

Word of the day,

Agency

To get agency” means to gain, re-establish or exert control over one own life, actions, and decisions,
ather
than feeling like a passive observer or victim of circumstance

All things are possible!

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12/29/2025

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Year in Review

2025 — what a fabulous year! A year where so many of my dreams came to life right before my eyes.

✨ A new pontoon boat… the boat of my dreams.
✨ A cozy new tiny home for my private hideouts.
✨ An ATV dune buggy for sandy adventures and girls’ road trips.
✨ A brand-new ministry, Inspired Word.
✨ Fresh Life by Design workshops and retreats.
✨ And the sweetest news of all… I’m finally going to be a grandmama! 💛

My heart is so full.

I can’t wait to step into 2026 and live out all this beautiful newness.
I love dreaming with God and planning goals with Him — life is exciting, and with God all things are possible.

💗🌸💗🌸💗🌸My favourite poet
12/19/2025

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My favourite poet

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Hello My Single Girlfriend!

My Name is BrendaLee Abram Nakamura and I am Single to Married God's Way!

Well the truth is I wasnt always married, and I wasn’t always happy!

Infact, I have a history of past toxic relationships, broken marriage, single mom for years. I looked for love in all the wrong places. One day I was at the end of my rope, ready to end it all. Instead of checking out, I looked UP! I yelled to God, “If your real? bring it on” ...Yup, and he sure did... God ReWrote My Love Story ! ! ! crazy amazing indeed.... my story has been on National TV, magazines, billboard, rooftops, bus stops even transportation vehicles. Thank you 100 Huntley :)