06/04/2026
The original topic for this post was "Create Something Just for Fun," and my intention was to talk about how, so often as adults, we don't take the time to create just for the sake of creating.
We either think we're not an artist, so we can't paint. Not talented enough as a writer to write a poem. Or if it can't be monetized, used, or turned into something productive, then why take the time to do it?
We are, by our spiritual nature, creators. Our souls sing when we get lost in the flow of making beauty. That, I know, is true.
And also...
What I've realized lately is that we don't often take the time to do ANYTHING just for fun.
We hit the gym to get the reps in. We go for a walk to get the steps in. We cook dinner to get the grams of protein in.
Especially as women in our 50s, life can start to feel like an endless checklist just to take care of ourselves.
And when life becomes a checklist, fun, joy, pleasure, and creativity often don't make the list.
So my challenge to you, and to myself, is to find more moments to create joy in our lives.
Cook the meal because you enjoy it.
Go for a walk simply because it's a beautiful evening.
Sing in the shower.
Dance in the kitchen.
Paint if you want to... or simply doodle in the margins of your notebook.
How can we infuse more fun into our lives?
One thing I've done recently might seem small, but I wanted to share it.
I realized I tend to forget to take my supplements if I can't see them. But it's also my dream to have as close to an empty kitchen counter as possible.
So I created a tiny altar with my daily supplements, a little statue, and a vase of lavender.
It is SO pretty.
It makes me smile every time I look at it... which means my success rate at taking my supplements is higher than it's been in months!
Tiny? Yes.
Beautiful? Yes.
Totally worth it? Absolutely.
I'd love to hear how you're weaving fun, joy, or beauty into your day.