04/18/2022
I remember reading an online forum that came with one of those pregnancy tracker apps, when I stumbled across a post that struck me.
To paraphrase, the woman said that she had amped up her fitness routine in an attempt to gain as little weight as possible but was frustrated with her rate of weight gain.
My initial reaction was “yeah, that’s part of the deal.” 🙄
As I thought more about it though, I felt sad, and even empathy for her. Working out during pregnancy is great, I highly recommend and encourage it. I also highly recommend and encourage putting any aesthetic, fitness, or athletic goals on pause until after postpartum recovery.
It can be hard to let go when we’re used to doing things or seeing our bodies look a certain way. Oftentimes, it’s deeper than fitness. It’s holding onto a past version of ourselves. A safe, comfortable self that we already know, like, and trust.
Pregnancy can change that. We don’t know what we’ll be like as a mom (or mom of multiple vs. one child), or how we’ll feel, what our life will be like, how we’ll interact with our child(ren). So we try to hang onto what we can control, and for many of us, that’s our fitness routine.
Pregnancy is literally all about change. Change can be scary but it can also be good. Learning to embrace it goes a long way.
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