06/18/2026
What you resist only persists - Carl Jung.
This is so true. I resisted for so many years as a young adult and adolescent. And what resistance taught me , was a ton of suffering.
I felt severely anxious all the time, my mind was in constant overthinking , what if thinking and scary thought mode on a daily basis.
I felt depressed and hopeless.
My nervous system was in fight or flight 2-4-7.
I was surviving, not living.
And to be honest , I’ve come to realize , that’s ok.
If any of this resonates with you , most likely you were or are doing the best you can with what you knew at the time.
Spending time criticizing the resistance will just continue to bring us back to where we started.
But when we can just be with what is , we start to feel softer on the inside. Our parts start to feel seen and heard.
This is what the mindfulness practice has taught me for the past 20 years.
We are safe when we turn inward and welcome what is. It won’t hurt us even more. It will celebrate that you can welcome what is.
If this is new to you , or something you practice daily.
Follow these steps below and see what happens.
It’s such a great little map to guide you through some difficult feelings.
Know that you are not alone in this.
Wishing you all a peaceful Thursday ❤️✌️.