26/02/2026
This is an awesome reflection.
🐴 A simple horsemanship exercise for parents, carers and coaches...
You don’t need a formal lesson for this. You don’t even need a saddle.
Next time you’re with a child and their pony - whether that’s at home, before a ride, after a lesson or during a rally - pause for a moment and ask:
“Where do you think your pony likes to be scratched?”
Hold the pony safely and let the child spend a few quiet minutes gently rubbing and scratching along the neck. Encourage them to really watch the pony’s reaction.
When they find the right spot, you’ll often see it straight away:
♥️ The eyes soften or half close
♥️ The bottom lip droops
♥️ The neck stretches forward
♥️ The whole expression relaxes
Some horses will try to scratch back with their teeth. It usually means they’re enjoying it, but it’s important not to allow it, as it can easily turn into nipping.
Most horses enjoy being scratched just below the wither. They might also like behind the ears, along the neck or on the chest. Let the child explore gently and pay attention to the feedback they’re getting.
For coaches, this can be a lovely way to start a rally. It settles everyone, helps young riders tune in, and reminds them that good riding starts on the ground.
For parents and carers, it’s a simple shift in focus. Instead of “What are we practising today?” the question becomes, “How is my pony feeling?”
Those small, quiet moments matter. They build observation, empathy and feel - the foundations of real horsemanship.
🥕 This activity is adapted from the Pony Club Australia D Certificate Manual
