24/05/2025
It’s 24th May which means it’s…
🎗️ 🙏💛🏆GRATITUDE DAY 🏆💛🙏 🎗️
4 years ago at this time Ayden and I were at Robina hospital being told that the doctors are not sure what’s going on but they are taking blood and within the hour they were talking with the Brisbane Children’s Hosptial.
I lay in bed with Ayden tonight and I asked what he remembered about that night. We talked about it, shed a tear or two and then he looked up with a big grin on his face and said “you gotta do better than that to stop me God, I got lots of living to do”.
And to that I had no words.
Just joyful, proud tears.
There have been many, many difficult days since Ayden finished treatment. When the people around you say “you did it.” “You got through the toughest times.”
You know what, yeah we did. And that’s what today is about. Celebrating all that has been achieved in spite of the upheaval.
But I’ve always been real. And the reality is, trauma and grief take its toll in so many ways. We are still crippled some days with hurt, grief, loss, pain, what ifs. They will be with us forever.
But like loosing a loved one.
You learn how to live your new normal carrying that heavy load.
Yes, today is gratitude day and we celebrate for all that we have gained AND acknowledging the pain and grief that will be always there…because ignoring it is sweeping it under the carpet and that’s not healthy for any of us.
Cheers to all of you for being here with us for the past 4 years 🥂🍻💙🧡❤️🩹