25/08/2023
A few weeks ago I presented to 65+ business owners, discussing the importance of looking after ourselves with exercise and nutrition, and provide practical strategies the attendees could implement to their routines immediately.
In the week leading up to the presentation I was feeling confident, prepared and excited to deliver.
On the day however, a wave of nerves began to build and didn’t go away. The anxiety got the better of me and I don’t believe I did a very good job. Somewhere in the presentation there was a message, and I hope at least one person took something from it.
After what felt like an eternity, struggling to get into a rhythm, lots of stalls and looking at my notes, there was a moment where I almost walked off stage.
“I can’t do this, your talk sucks, you look like a fool; just apologise and leave.”
The only thing that kept me on stage was the amount of friction that stood in the way of actually walking off stage.
Fortunately there were enough hurdles in my way though that pushing through and delivering the talk required less effort than walking away. If there was less friction required to walk away, I would have.
Delaying the gratification of getting off stage meant I was able to finish what I set out to do.
Same goes for your health. Making a positive change to achieve a desired outcome isn’t easy. The action steps required are simple, but along the way you’ll be presented with challenges and opportunities to give up on your journey.
If you don’t book into a class or set aside time to train, no one will ever know if you skipped leg day.
If you don’t log your workouts or invest in a coach, you’ll keep lifting the same weight every week instead of adding that little bit extra.
If you’re trying to improve your eating habits but don’t pre-plan meals or have a kitchen full of off-plan foods, you’re going to be eating the easier, more convenient and often less nutritious options available.
Identify the desired outcome, make the action steps that move you closer to that outcome easier to do, versus the action steps that move you further away.