28/05/2023
Here’s a fact of life I hope you find interesting.
When a person is feeling- tired, or insecure, or intimidated, or depressed, or inferior, they ’carry’ themselves in a certain manner. Meaning, they let their shoulders slump forward, they look down, they don’t make eye contact, and they generally become more retracted into themselves.
When a person is feeling awesome, a winner, when they have just received great news or when they are ‘going for it’ in life, the opposite happens. They lift their heads, their shoulders are held back, they look straight out, and they do make strong eye contact. They ‘expand’. They feel and look bigger!
This has gone on in your life the whole way thru, without you even being aware of it happening. Our subconscious mind relates slumped shoulders, downward eyesight etc with us feeling week and down.
It also relates upright posture, shoulders back, direct eyesight etc to us feeling strong and confident.
So here’s the point- whenever you do recognise yourself adopting a slumped posture, you can be sure it is during a phase in your life when you are feeling beaten, down, negative. When this happens, you MUST break the mental/physical loop and start standing tall. Shoulders back, head up, eyes ahead not looking down. Immediately, you will feel your mind ramping up into power mode. You will feel yourself looking for solutions, answers to the problem/situation that has made you feel weak.
This is a proven method of changing ourselves from weak to strong.
Self Awareness is needed to recognise we are in the ‘weak posture’, and Self Regulation is needed to shift ourselves into the ‘power posture’.
Being negative, feeling beaten by life, or feeling inadequate to others around you with big egos or big mouths, over time will start to become your normal sense of self. No way! Not on! This is no way to live your life. Power up - let your mind know that you want to feel strong. You matter.
Head up, shoulders back, walk wih purpose, carry on.
Have an awesome week.