16/06/2026
One of the most dangerous things conditioning does is make us stop questioning. It weakens our discernment. It overrides the voice of the primal force within us, one with nature, that is always trying to guide us back.
And these days the conditioning is loud. It’s everywhere. We read it on our phones, hear it from professionals, see it modelled by the people around us.
And it has us not only accepting, but often embracing and celebrating a life that looks exactly like what we see around us.
Normal.
We stop asking whether something is healthy, life giving, or aligned and instead if it fits the status quo.
But common and normal are not the same thing.
We live in a culture that is exhausted, disconnected, overstimulated, sleep deprived, lonely, chronically stressed, and increasingly dependent on quick fixes for problems that often have much deeper roots.
And because we see it reflected all around us, we begin to accept it as simply the way things are.
We stop questioning.
We stop imagining alternatives.
We stop trusting what our bodies are trying to tell us.
The irony is that many of the things that are now seen as unrealistic or radical were once simply part of being human.
Living in community.
Prioritising playfulness and joy.
Spending more time with your friends and family than your colleagues.
Eating food that hasn’t travelled 100’s of km to reach your plate or been doused in pesticides.
Growing older without believing you become less beautiful with age.
Celebrating elders and valuing their wisdom.
Honouring cycles, seasons, rest, grief, joy, pleasure. The full spectrum of being alive.
This isn’t to judge individual choices but asking what is shaping those choices? Are they even yours?
Who benefits when we believe our bodies need to be fixed?
Who benefits when we fear the lines of laughter and life marked on our faces?
Who benefits when we are too exhausted to question the conditions we are living in?
I definitely don’t have all the answers.
But I do think we need to become more willing to ask uncomfortable questions. More willing to face some hard truths about how far we have drifted from what normal could, or should be.