28/04/2022
I had a to do a windscreen today out near Toolamba, so I called in to sit and talk with Dad for a bit as I had a few things on my mind ❤️
Had a great chat and got a bit of clarity on a few things.
When Dad was alive and I had a issue I would go and talk to him.
What today made me remember and realise is how good Dad was at just holding space.
He would sit and listen to me rant, rave and swear and he we would just sit and occasionally ask a question while I worked though my issue.
As I yelled, growled and talked out loud I would go from angry to annoyed to calmness and end up with some clarity around the issue.
At the end he will give me his one sentence advice and we would sit for awhile and then I would leave in a way better head space than I arrived.
Today was the same, without the angry emotions and his closing piece of advice 😞
Today made ne realise we all actually have the answers to most our challenges within us.
We need to workout how we personally work ourselves from confusion to clarity.
It might help to find someone like my Dad who can hold the space and not jump in giving their advice or opinion while you work through it 💖👊🏽
