05/09/2026
Meet Adrian, one of our founding members and a blue belt here at Carlson Gracie Redlands.
He works in the hazmat industry as a health and safety guy, has been married for around 14 years and has two kids, an 8 and 10 year old, with one of them still training here alongside him.
Adrian was not actually looking for a gym when he found us, he saw an ad on Facebook for a new Jiu Jitsu gym opening up just around the corner from home and thought it would be a great opportunity to get his son down here. The hardest part starting out was not knowing what to expect and being unsure how his body would handle starting a combat sport in his mid 40s, but he quickly found that as long as you pace yourself it is not too bad at all.
What changed once he started training was his mental focus. All the everyday stress from work gets left on the mats, and even though you walk out a bit sore, you feel far more relaxed and ready to go again a few days later.
Two and a half years after starting as a fresh white belt, Adrian earned his blue belt, something he genuinely never thought he would achieve given how slow the learning process can feel in this sport. It was never something he planned for but once you start, that blue belt becomes the next big milestone, and it is one he worked hard for and earned completely.
His advice to anyone sitting on the fence is honest and direct. Do not start if you are expecting it to be easy, because it will challenge you mentally and physically. But come down and give it a go, because you will quickly work out if this sport is for you, and it usually takes two or three weeks and a rough first session or two before people really settle in. Most people who walk through nervous end up staying, and a lot of the people who started here at the very beginning are still here today.