12/10/2025
An ego can be apparent by many in the gym. Some compare, some don’t. I’ve lost count of the amount of times that I’ve been asked what I bench. Internally I’m like…’what, currently in my 50s, or back in my 20s’ - there’s a big difference. However, my typical response is normally ‘who cares’ or ‘more than my bodyweight’. Sometimes I’m like…’bench - huh, what do you squat? Squat is king! We don’t run on our hands’.
So, before making comparisons think about what they’re doing and why they’re doing it…it’s about their INTENT. They could be:
- Recovering from injury, therefore, working on rehab
- High reps, high sets
- Slow, eccentric movements
- Fast bar movement (bar velocity)
- Hypertrophy training
- Low loading session
- Pre-comp
…and the list goes on.
If you have to compare what you lift others, maybe it’s a way to make yourself feel better and less insecure?! Don’t worry about, worry about you - what you’re doing, why you’re doing it, your goals, what YOUR INTENT is.