02/06/2026
Molly is an intensive care nurse. And when she came to me, the first thing she said was: "I don't even know who I am anymore. I'm just this thing that shows up to work, takes care of everyone else, goes home exhausted, and repeats. I feel like I'm watching my life from the outside."
Molly wasn't lacking skills. She wasn't short on resilience or dedication. She had those in abundance. What Molly had lost was herself.
I don't think Molly's story is unusual. I think it's incredibly common in healthcare, and I think most people quietly recognise it when they hear it.
We've become so focused on being better providers, better colleagues, better leaders, that somewhere along the way we stopped being people. We got very good at functioning. We forgot how to feel.
Episode 185 Of The Burnout Recovery Podcast is about what happens when the pursuit of growth quietly disconnects us from ourselves, and what it actually looks like to find your way back.
Being human first is easy to say. It's a lot harder to live when the system you work in doesn't make space for it.
Ep 185 is out now. Subscribe via the link in my bio.
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