14/08/2023
Masterful riding- spoiler alert- I do not do it
Though I do aspire to it
The world has changed. I’m sure you’re envisioning me now with a gray beard, bent over a cane shakily pointing my finger. I’m too young to be this old- but that part is true. We’re a tips and tricks society, learning to do “things” with horses but not to really ride.
The show world largely learns to train and ride for a level, a movement, style. People seek out positional tips, ways to clean up a half pass or a flying change, a stop, ways to keep the horse calm in the warmup ring.
The pleasure world seeks tips to ease problems- catching, trailer loading, steering, problems of speed or behaviors.
A clinic setting is largely where people come for a tip, a fix up: “my horse bolts,” “my horse is too slow,” “my horse is herd bound,” and so forth. “What do I do when…?” Success at the clinic is usually judged on whether that particular problem was solved or not, with a miss of the overall picture of what created that problem.
I think many teachers would about fall over dead from happiness if a student came to a clinic and said “id like to learn to really ride this horse, and to really train this horse, so we can get along- and I want that to be a lifelong commitment. I’m willing to skip next weeks trail ride or show and forget my circle of friends to do it.”
Riding- it’s not just sitting on a horse. A relationship is not just spending time with the horse making googly eyes at each other. The art of horsemanship, the art of being a horseman or woman- is a devotion to betterment of self, of learning to really sit and absorb the motion of a horse so their body feels safe and comfortable carrying you, to employ the aids in a logical and thoughtful and progressive manner, to connect one thing to another and to understand that trsiler loading is no different than a canter pirouette: to do all things with respect and wonder. To prove to a horse you feel good to be around and under and near- and not some dizzying clinic hopper looking for different answers, trying a new training style every weekend.
But to do this, we need examples. We need people who’s agenda is to push systemic change, actual riding and not magic and showmanship on a clinic tour. We need to idolize people who are working on mastering their own seat and not just folks who took a piece here and there and cobbled it together with a hat, not just folks who can make stuff happen on a weekend, but people who’s horses display long term soundness, thoroughness and ease of expression, people who are devoted to the craft and not the crowd.
It doesn’t matter what discipline you ride- we need masters to look up to, so we don’t keep getting sucked into the sleight of hand of showmen collecting their change and moving on to the next town.