TLM Coaching Services

TLM Coaching Services Give yourself permission to be the best version of you in EVERY aspect of your life! Hello Beautiful YOU! I am so glad that you are here.

What if there was a different way of being? What if you didn't have to hide anymore? If you could live your life with more ease, more calm, more space, more happiness, what would you do? What could you create, cherish, enjoy? There is a way, and its easier than you ever dared to imagine it would be. All you have to do is BE you and open yourself up to the possibility.

I work one-on-one with my

clients to ensure that I can do the best job possible for them. We are not all the same, so there is no one-size-fits-all package. I tailor for each individual client and their goals and vision of success.

I have found my passion again and I love what I do.

We as humans have created many things ......
07/04/2026

We as humans have created many things ......

Living beside someone whose brain is wired toward threat doesn't have to be hard.When we think about it in evolutionary ...
07/04/2026

Living beside someone whose brain is wired toward threat doesn't have to be hard.

When we think about it in evolutionary terms, it was really useful.

"Maybe don't sleep in that cave…….there might be a bear in it."

The issue is that modern life isn't full of real bears, but the brain acts like it is. It's self preservation.

But how do you handle things when the accompanying commentary feel so heavy and negative?

1. Stop trying to convert them into a positive person.
This is real trap. You will go insane trying to turn a natural pessimist into a motivational speaker.
Our cognitive filters are deeply wired. The goal isn't to change the filter.
The goal is to manage the impact on you.

2. Lightly name it. Sometime just calling it out resets the dynamic.
Not confrontationally, perhaps use a little humour.
"daily product review completed, I hear it's a 6 out of 10!"

3. Don't enter the complaint loop.
More often than not you instinctively respond. You explain, you try to fix, you defend, you debate.
That all feeds the loop.
Instead, acknowledge and move on. No debate, no emotional energy.

4. Protect your emotional environment
This is important. If someone has a negative bias, you cannot let their internal weather become your weather.
Think of it like this ……. Their mood is their climate system. You are not responsible for stabilising it.
You can listen without absorbing.

Some times those that we love and spend time with have to empty out all the 'bear stuff' before they can find and acknowledge the good stuff. They need to throw all the bears out of the cave first….then they can sit down.

This really resonates right now.
07/04/2026

This really resonates right now.

if an adult cuts off their parent,imagine the heartbreak it took to get there.nobody wakes up one day and says,“i think ...
13/01/2026

if an adult cuts off their parent,
imagine the heartbreak it took to get there.

nobody wakes up one day and says,
“i think i’ll cut my family off for fun.”

it’s not a trend. it’s not a mood.
it’s the ending of years, sometimes decades,
of being hurt, unheard, or dismissed.

when an adult child walks away,
it’s because the boundaries they set were ignored.
because the same wounds kept being reopened.
because the people who should’ve been a safe place… weren’t.

and they are not obligated to keep accepting disrespect
just because “you’re their mom” or “you’re their dad.”

so if one day they decide they’re better off without you,
it’s because the pain of staying
finally outweighed the pain of leaving.

and that’s not betrayal.
that’s survival.

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Finding Your Stillness:Here are a few simple practices to cultivate stillness in your daily life:🍀Mindful Breathing: Tak...
20/07/2025

Finding Your Stillness:

Here are a few simple practices to cultivate stillness in your daily life:

🍀Mindful Breathing: Take a few moments each day to focus on your breath.
🍀Nature Walks: Immerse yourself in the tranquility of nature.
🍀Meditation: Even a few minutes of meditation can make a difference.
🍀Journaling: Reflect on your thoughts and feelings in a journal.

Start small, be patient with yourself, and remember that even brief moments of stillness can have a profound impact.

Resilience: It’s Easy to Talk About—But When Does It Really Matter?Not just in crisis.True resilience is just as importa...
06/05/2025

Resilience: It’s Easy to Talk About—But When Does It Really Matter?

Not just in crisis.

True resilience is just as important in the everyday chaos of leadership, business, and growth.

It’s what helps you reset after a tough morning and refocus for the rest of the day.

It’s what carries you through difficult conversations and the inner voice that questions your capability.

It’s the strength to pause, reassess, and move forward with clarity and purpose.

As a business owner and NLP Master Practitioner, I’ve learned that resilience isn’t just something you have—it’s something you build. Like any muscle, it strengthens through practice, especially on the days when motivation is low and the pressure is high.

📌 Key takeaway:
Resilience doesn’t make challenges disappear. It equips you to face them—head-on and with purpose.

Whether you're leading a team, growing a business, or navigating personal growth, don’t underestimate the quiet power of showing up—especially when no one else is watching.

𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐈𝐬 𝐓𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐲 𝐋𝐨𝐲𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐲As a business owner, I strive to be the kind of boss I always wanted — respectful, f...
08/04/2025

𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐈𝐬 𝐓𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐲 𝐋𝐨𝐲𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐲

As a business owner, I strive to be the kind of boss I always wanted — respectful, fair, generous, and human.

I make a conscious effort to create a workplace where people feel safe, appreciated, and supported — not just professionally, but sometimes even personally. I’ve helped staff through tough times, loaned money in emergencies, offered flexibility when life got complicated, and made room for growth, even when it wasn’t easy.

Most of the time, this approach works beautifully. But every so often, someone mistakes kindness for weakness.

Recently, a team member I’ve gone above and beyond for has made it clear: unless I “do more”, they’ll walk. More pay, more perks, more everything — not because they’re contributing more, but because they believe my loyalty is negotiable.

Here’s the truth I’ve had to sit with:
𝐋𝐨𝐲𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐲 𝐢𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐥𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐞.
𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐢𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐞.

As leaders, our job is to support, not be used. To empower, not enable. To lead with heart — and also with healthy boundaries.

Can you be generous and still have a spine? YES!
Can you be compassionate and still say no? YES!
Can you wish someone well and still let them go? YES!

To my fellow business owners and leaders: Don’t let the fear of losing someone stop you from doing what’s right — for the business, for your team, and for yourself.

Have you ever had to draw a hard line in the name of self-respect?

I’d love to hear how you handled it.

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