12/06/2026
You are definitely not alone in this.
Many women feel nauseous, uncomfortable and experience a full-body ‘ick’ response at the thought of touching their c-section incision.
Let alone massaging it.
I cannot tell you how many women reach out to me saying they feel so sick by the look or feeling of their scar.
If that’s you too, 1) you’re not alone and 2) let’s try this tip:
For the next couple of weeks, when you find yourself in a moment of relaxation (it’s important you feel safe and comfortable) — for example, when you’re watching a show in bed or reading your book...
Simply place your hand over your incision, and just leave it there.
No massage.
No scar sensitivity work.
Just a still, warm and comforting hand.
We want our nervous system’s response to touch to be either neutral or, better yet, positive.
Not sick, nauseous, or uncomfortable.
This is common after a traumatic birth or even just touching a post-surgical area of our bodies.
But this is where our beautiful babies were born! We deserve to have a better relationship with our incision.
Let me know if this helps or if you’re up for giving it a go!
Tomorrow I’ll be sharing my favourite c-section massage variations ❤️🩹