16/01/2025
I was recently on a training call with an amazing coach who reminded me of our core human as people.
For those that don’t know we all have these human needs, yes YOU do! And recognising these and how we respond to them is so important in our day to day lives. ✨
The needs are certainty, variety, significance, connection and when we receive 3 or more of these needs at a high level we step into Growth, Contribution and Love.❤️
There are healthy and unhealthy ways to receive these needs but when we step into our best selves we receive certainty, variety etc in a way where we function in who we truly are and always meant to be everything will flow.
It also helps us understand others around us and their needs.
For me Variety and Connection have always been a strong need, whether it’s a variety of clients, activities and building deep connections where I belong. 🔑
However, as I reflected I was reminded of a few things and how I had perceived certain words……
Significance, umm well that’s about people wanting to be centre of attention, being a show off. That’s was my belief…… 🙃
I never looked at it as something I needed. For some people this may come out in an unhealthy way of trying to get approval or acceptance through various ways as they don’t know who they really are.
Relate?
However, significance now for me is about me being valued, having worth, being purposeful in everything I do. That I am significant. I am important in a healthy way.
That it is a need but my perception of it was through a false belief and lense from childhood of what I thought it meant and how I saw myself.
Thanks you
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