03/03/2025
I’ve been noticing the last few years more and more of separation between people and public humiliation.
Vaccines VS Unvaccinated— (do I, don’t I?) first time ever 4 years ago that people got so involved in knowing other’s personal information on whether they did or didn’t get it.
Political VS Worldly views— there is PURE hatred for someone being curious minded about one politician, questioning whether they are as bad as people say, and the majority who follow a particular party, no matter what they say or do. everyone is in the wrong if they don’t follow this left-wing agenda. Everyone is in the wrong if they don’t have this right -wing agenda.
Coaches VS Other coaches/online businesses— I notice a lot of the coaches doing well on my Facebook are using “othering” strategies to make their coaching business look better and why all these other coaches are so bad. Criticising the niche people use and how they market or brand themselves
(There’s a reason my coaching business went quiet). —I’m tired of this bu****it.
Country Vs War — People choosing sides on countries, swinging flags around thinking it’s the way to solve wars.. people getting purely aggressive. (It’s totally understandable to feel furious at what’s going on in the world) I personally don’t understand that outward aggression will resolve these situations, and I don’t know about them enough to comment with precision.
Carnivores VS Vegans…. Cult against cult(?)🥴 carnivores saying that this is the only way to be healthy by living in “ancestral” roots, while triggering vegans because killing sentient beings is what we are against, so killing animals is a sensitive subject for us. - sometimes we just don’t want to have more of these conversations, do what you need to do, Michael.
Conspiracy Theorist VS Science …
C’mon, can we not just laugh about it if we don’t believe it?
Nutrient “Experts” (because they saw something on TikTok) VS people who get their research from books and science 🥴
Quite frankly, it’s all depressing. It’s painful to see, and I can’t be bothered.
It’s healthy to debate, but debates now seem to regularly be hate speeches.
Everything is “Them, OR me”…
Like— you’re either part of this group, or not mine….
There’s no room for discussion,
There’s no room for healthy conversation
There seems to be no room in people’s life to have other people with different opinions or curiosities towards another subject in there. One opinion makes a full rejection of a human; who is, just like you, trying to work it out.
It feels people are losing the control of their own voice.
🐑 We are a sheep. 🐑
🤖 Soon, the sheep will turn into a robot 🤖
We try to mask our wider thoughts to our “best friends” because we are scared of a conversation that may turn into separation.
Because of this, we stay quiet. We turn off to most that they say because of our own thoughts.
Or, we push our own thoughts away and agree with everyone else because they seem so adamant, and we don’t want to lose our friends and feel shamed.
There’s nothing worse than the feeling of shame..
So, why can’t we have these conversations without trying to make a deeper understanding?
Can we agree to disagree sometimes?
Because you aren’t learning if you choose to leave someone because of their difference in opinion.
You also are disempowering someone to use their voice with more aggressive reactions to one an other.
You know how long it takes to feel confident to speak up?
Next time you don’t agree, stop, ask questions, and hear them.
If you’re really disappointed, please calmly explain, but don’t expect them ever to agree. Especially straight away! Things take time…
🌎 If we want peace in this world, it’s time to observe, listen and try to understand their intentions.
