30/10/2026
A clear majority of a few hundred primary school kids told us stress is a bad thing.
And here’s why it matters.
It’s a Friday afternoon and we’ve made a mad dash to the school assembly because Ella is about to be celebrated on stage. Certificate. Round of applause. An absolute must-attend moment.
And following the presentation.. the kids were asked a question.
👍Thumbs up if they thought stress was a good thing.
👎Thumbs down if they thought stress was a bad thing.
I didn’t have time for an accurate count, but a clear majority had their thumbs down.
And here’s the flow on effect.
When we see stress as inherently bad, we aim to avoid it at all costs.
We read an elevated heart rate as dangerous.
We treat physical discomfort as something to stay clear of.
Cold? Hungry? People pi***ng you off?
The list of potential stressors is never ending.
If we label the human reaction to a stressor, and the feelings that come with it, as automatically bad, we end up avoiding the very thing that can serve us a whole lot of good.
Physical capacity is directly tied to our sense of physical freedom, confidence and resilience. And building it requires a healthy relationship with stress.
As coaches, we’re seeking a stress response.
We use physical stress on purpose, as a signal for positive change, to upgrade the hardware that lives in the body.
So if you’re struggling to train because it’s uncomfortable or stressful, remind yourself that both, delivered in the right dose for the right reason at the right time, are essential for building a body that simply works better.
Do this for long enough and not only will your body become stress adapted, your brain will too.
Oh.. and please ask your kids what they think about stress. Thumbs up or thumbs down.
You might change the way they see the world 🗺️