23/11/2021
WHEN THINGS DONT GO TO PLAN☁️
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Zac and I went down south for a few days last week. Unfortunately I was sick for more than half of it🙄 but it was still such a great time away!
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In life we’re gonna have things that don’t go our way. Like planning a holiday and then being sick the whole time. Or failing an assignment you put heaps of effort into. Or COVID ruining your gap year. Or breaking your wrists at the start of a two week snowboarding trip….🙃
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I know that I’ve had my fair share of sh*t things happen, and I’m sure a lot of you can relate. But we are all capable of coping with anything. No matter what our brain tells us.
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If things don’t go to plan, the first thing you need to do is reframe your thinking and how you’re looking at the situation. When I was sick last week, I was in a bad mood because I felt like the whole trip was ruined. But then I tried to remind myself that I was still down south and could enjoy a few days off. There is always one or more positive to a situation! So start looking out for it🌈
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The other thing to do is reach out to friends or loved ones and talk to them about your feelings towards a situation. They may be able to help support you through it, give you advice or distract you from your negative thoughts.
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You got this💪 If you couldn’t handle what life throws at you, you wouldn’t be here in the first place.
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And if you’re really struggling, don’t hesitate to reach out💞