25/02/2025
It took me 25 years to understand my values.
It took an additional 5 to understand my purpose.
Our Values are the principles with which we live our life.
They are both the character traits we have and the lens with which we see the world, and they are a resource to help impact us in two ways:
1. Values guide our decisions.
2. Values allow us to live a fulfilled life.
Our Purpose is 'how we apply our values to impact the world'. It's what we give in service of something greater.
We can list our values in many ways, a list, a mission, an interpretation... realistically the reflection should be subjective and follow whatever works best for the individual.
I reflect on my values with a a few short statements.
I am a gentleman with integrity,
I put family and friends first,
I inspire with my ambition, and
am respected because I implement with action.
I have the utmost self-belief in my abilities, and
am uncompromisingly committed to my results.
I keep life simple.
Our Values have an organic and inexplicable way of showing us what we truly want to be doing with our lives.
- If I had let just ambition be my guide, I'd still be selling property in Dubai.
- If I had let just let commitment be my guide, I'd likely be a broke, full-time cross-fitter.
- If I had let just self-belief be my guide, I'd probably still be swapping time for money in a law-firm cubicle.
None of which were both fulfilling and in service of something greater.
Instead,
When I apply all of my values, (yes - some more than others),
I create a life that is wholly fulfilling,
I create a life where I am giving the best of myself to the world,
I create a life where I can:
be a business owner,
be a father, a husband,
a brother, a son,
a friend, and
I create a life where I am called to Coach others to uncover and fulfill their own Values & Purpose.
Your Values are Who You Are,
Your Purpose is What You Give,
I truly hope you too have clarity on both.
If you feel comfortable,
Share some of your values in the comments.